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Wednesday, November 7, 2012

Babywearing Paintings

Babywearing is beautiful, a sleeping baby curled up on their parent's chest, lulled to sleep by their steady movements and heartbeat.  Artist Katie M Berggren does an amazing job of capturing the joy of babywearing in her stunning paintings.  A mother, Katie's painting are full of cherished moments any parent can relate to, but her babywearing inspired paintings are some of my favorite.

Zerberts is excited to be teaming up with Katie for a second time, this time to bring you a 2013 Babywearing Calendar filled with stunning babywearing paintings by Kaite M Berggren!


Calendars measures 8.5 x 11 inches closed and 17 inches tall when open.



Each month has a different painting selected by Katie.


Limited availability.  Get one for yourself or for that special babywearer you know!

With her permission, I'd like to share some of Kaiie's beautiful paintings with you.  I hope you enjoy! For more information about Katie M Berggren and her paintings, please see her website.

Deep As a River
Natural Path
Midsummer Day
Elemental
Organic
All art is copyrighted by Katie m. Berggren art & design, LLC and was re-posted with her knowledge and permission.

Monday, October 8, 2012

Carrying On Traditions


Happy International Babywearing Week to all the awesome babywearers out there!  Babywearing is not a new fad, but actually something that has been around for ages, in all corners of the globe!  Not only are we participating in an age old tradition, but we are passing it on as we start our own family traditions.  In honor of this years theme, Carrying On Traditions, I wanted to share these amazing photos showing the tradition of babywearing around the world.

Happy Babywearing!






















Carry on the tradition!

Thursday, October 4, 2012

Golden Rule of Babywearing

Lately I have been hearing a lot about the "rules" of babywearing.  While most people just mean to educate and help others wear the babies, the focus seems to be moving more and more away from what babywearing is really about.

Babywearing is about carrying your baby.  It's about holding them close.  Letting them hear your breath.  Making sure they feel safe and loved.   Letting them fall asleep to the sounds of your heartbeat.   Smelling their sweet little heads.  It is not about the carrier you use or being a perfect babywearer.   Just wear them.

The message

Some of the things I  am going to say in this blog may not be very popular.  I am not trying to offend anyone and this post is being written with the best of intentions.  Please remember that while reading and if something can be taken the wrong way, give me the benefit of the doubt that it was not intended that way.  And I want to ask that everyone reads this fully, and with an open mind.  I know we all have kids and who has time to read lengthy posts right?!  Heck, I don't even have time to write it!  But I feel it's an important topic that need to be discussed and to really get the point of this post, you must read it in it's entirety.  So if you find yourself annoyed with me, hang in there and try to appreciate the message.

I am writing this post because many people in the babywearing community are noticing a sad trend in the community we love so much.  Babywearing is turning into a very black and white topic, you're either doing it wrong or right.  But the reality is that there is no wrong way to wear your baby as long as you do it safely (e.i. not chin to chest).  There may be more ideal positions to carry your baby, more comfortable carriers, but all babywearing is good.  Instead of wrong and right babywearing, it should be good babywearing and better babywearing.  Every parent that wears their baby is trying.  Trying to be closer to them.  Trying to bond.  Trying to wear them in the best way they know how.  That should be celebrated, always, in any form it comes in.

But before I get too carried away, let's take a look at some of the rules I am talking about.

Safety:  Though I do not believe in "wrong or right" babywearing, there are safe and unsafe ways to babywear.  Always make sure you are wearing your baby safely.  Visit BabywearingInternational.org for more information on safe babywearing.


The "Rules"


Facing forwards/out
Wearing your baby facing out is a seriously hot topic in the babywearing community.  Experienced babywearers don't like wearing baby facing out because it throws off the wearer's center of gravity making it less comfortable, doesn't support the baby's spine properly, and can cause your baby to be overstimulated and unable to regulate the input by looking away.  These are all good reasons not to wear your baby facing out and I personally don't do it or recommend it.

So what's the problem?  Facing out is bad right?  Well, like it or not, most people's first experience with babywearing will be wearing their baby facing out.  I have heard/read many mothers being attacked for wearing their baby facing out.  Now ask yourself, is this mother likely to stay around these babywearing discussion boards to learn more?  Is she likely to feel welcomed by the babywearing community?  Does shaming her and telling her to sell her carrier ASAP make her feel good about wearing her baby?  Chances are she will walk away from the community, and maybe babywearing all together.  After all, that carrier was uncomfortable and her baby is perfectly content in the stroller, so why bother?

The reality is that facing out is not ideal, but that doesn't make someone a bad parent or babywearer just because they do.  Some people argue that it could hurt the baby's spine.  But as Babywearing International recently pointed out on their Facebook page, there is no research to show facing out is bad for baby in the long run.  Is this position ideal for spine development?  No, but neither is overuse of a car seat or stroller or even a crib!  Wearing your child facing out for a couple hours a week is not likely to damage their spine.  Telling people they are harming their baby by wearing them actually harms the babywearing movement, labeling babywearing as "unsafe" when it is simply not ideal.

The "Crotch Dangler"
This topic is closely related to the first one since carriers that allow a baby to sit facing out are made with a narrow base.  This lets the baby's legs dangle underneath them, leading to them being referred to as "crotch danglers".

Ideally, a carrier should put the baby in a seated position to decrease the pressure applied to their spine and hips.  Their knees should be supported and their butt sitting down into the carrier.  This makes it much more comfortable for the baby, especially for larger babies that weigh more.  But this is an ideal and a carrier can be perfectly safe and not fit this standard.

I was shocked when a huge controversy broke out over Babywearing International receiving a donation of carriers from Britax, a sponsor for the International Babywearing Week celebrations.  People were outraged that Babywearing International would support that kind of carrier, but they support all babywearing as long as it's done safely.  When people stated that these carriers harm the baby's spine, Babywearing International said this:
There is NO research that shows that this type of carrier causes any of the problems you mentioned. Do people think those things? Yes. Is there research to back it up? No. By stating things that aren't fact as fact, (hypothetical) you are damaging the babywearing industry.
Many people do feel like these carriers are not good for babies and feel they need to warn people, and I'm not saying it's not okay to tell people there are better options.  I don't personally recommend these types of carriers and do not carry them in my store, but I owned them!  Two of them!  And they were horribly uncomfortable and I didn't like using them.  But if someone had run up to me and told me my baby carrier would damage my baby, emailed me a link showing me the "evidence", I would have never worn my baby again!  There is no way I would have kept looking and ultimately found so many amazing carriers out there.  But if someone would have told me it wasn't ideal and that there were way better carriers out there, I would have been so grateful for the tip.  No judgement.  I wasn't a bad mom, I just wasn't using the best style of baby carrier.  Now, I may have had to wait a while, I may have continued to use what I had until I had the money to afford a new one, but at least I wouldn't have felt like babywearing was bad, unsafe, and harmful.

Knee to Knee
Okay, I am sorry, but this one drives me CRAZY!!!  Knee to knee is a guideline to help people find the most supportive carrier for their baby.  A carrier that goes from the underside of one knee to the underside of the other knee will give a baby the ideal seat for their body, supporting their legs and putting their body in the best position for prolonged sitting.  This may be best, but it does not make it RIGHT!

Again, knee to knee is a guideline, a tool, an ideal and does not mean a carrier is bad or wrong for not fitting this way.  In fact, knee to knee is pretty much an impossible goal.  Anyone that has a baby knows they are an inch bigger every time you leave the room!  Unless you plan to buy a new baby carrier every three months, it is going to be pretty much impossible for someone to have a carrier that fits their baby knee to knee.

Imagine, your toddler is 18 months old.  You love babywearing, you've been babywearing since your baby was born.  You bring a pregnant friend to a babywearing meeting so they can see the different kinds of carriers and learn how to use the ring sling you bought her, but when you're there, you are told your favorite carrier doesn't fit your toddler any more.  They explain the knee to knee "rule" and you can obviously see how far your toddler's legs sick out, it's not even close.  You're sad.  Your toddler never seemed to have an issue or be uncomfortable, but you don't want them to be harmed by sitting in a carrier that doesn't support their body properly.  You look into toddler carriers, but they are expensive, way outside your budget, especially since you don't know how much longer you'll be babywearing anyway.  Your toddler is big and getting heavy.  They love to walk now and they can always ride in the stroller if their legs get tired.  You haven't been wearing them nearly as much as you used to and this just seems to be one more sign that your baby is growing up.  So instead of investing in an expensive new carrier, you figure it's just time to be done anyway and pack your carrier away for the next baby.

This actually happens.  People are told all the time that their carrier doesn't fit their baby anymore and they need a new one.  This.is.CRAZY!  A carrier can still fit and be comfortable for everyone even if it's not knee to knee.  I was just showing someone the other day how one of the carriers I own fits my almost 2 year old despite having a narrower body than some other brands.  Even though the carrier was no where near her knees, it was obvious to all of us that her legs were still in a good seated position with plenty of support, the carrier didn't cut into her legs at all, and she was perfectly comfortable in it.  Knee to knee should be a guideline or tip to help someone find an ideal fit, but it should never rule out a great carrier or make someone feel like their carrier is not good enough.

"That's a horrible carrier"
So this time, you are a new mom and are super excited about babywearing.  Someone gave you a carrier at your shower and you just used it for the first time.  You post a picture in the on-line babywearing group you found and are so excited to share with the other babywearing moms.  Then the comments start and your heart sinks.  You're doing it wrong.  You are breaking your baby.  Your carrier is awful, dangerous, and you need to return it right now to the store!  But you didn't keep the gift receipt because you were so sure you would keep it.  Now you're crying and pissed at these damn postpartum hormones.  You spend the next 3 months researching to make sure you get the "right" carrier.  When you find the "right" carrier, it's so big, you just don't feel comfortable using it until your little one is a little bigger.  In the mean time, your baby sits in the bouncy while the "bad" carrier lies crumpled at the bottom of your closet.

I cannot tell you how many times I have seen/read someone being told to return their carrier, it's awful, and don't use it!  I have even see people say those things to moms about a brand I loved!  Not because it was a "bad" style, but because some people don't like the way that brand's material feels.  Are some brands better than others?  Absolutely, hands down.  But as long as a carrier allows you to wear your baby safely, then they are all good carriers, even if some others might be better.

There are so many factors involved in which carrier someone is using.  Maybe it was a gift.  Maybe it was the only one they could find at the store.  Maybe it was all they could afford.  Maybe they couldn't afford one at all and they are borrowing their friend's carrier.  We don't know and it shouldn't matter.  What matters is that person in the picture holding the most precious thing to her in the whole wide world with a beaming smile.  Why do we want to crush that?  Why does it matter if she's not starting out with the ideal carrier?  Why would we want to do anything other than shout "way to go mom"?  Making someone feel like their carrier is inadequate doesn't help them no matter how good your intentions are.



Golden Rule of Babywearing

Treat all babywearers with the respect we would like to be treated with.  Whether new or experienced, all babywearers are parents that love their babies and want to wear them.  They deserve to be treated kindly without judgement.

Why we need it

I don't know if it has always been like this or if I am just noticing it now, but the babywearing community does not seem like the inviting place it should be.  Maybe it's because the internet makes it easy to see people as just words on a screen and not for the caring parents they actually are.  Maybe it's because education on safe babywearing has been merged with ideal babywearing.  But for what ever the reason, it's been nasty out there.

We were all new

Every babywearer starts somewhere.  Some are lucky to have great mentors around them that expose them to awesome carriers right from the start.  But most of us start off with less ideal carriers.  I went through several pretty uncomfortable ones before finally finding a stretch wrap that I loved.  But even then, I wrapped horribly and it took a long time before I got "good" at babywearing.

Luckily, when I finally did find other babywearers to interact with, they were all super nice and supportive.  Not one told me how horribly I was wrapping, or made me feel like I was doing something wrong.  They were great examples of ideal babywearing and I learned a ton from them without ever feeling bad about myself.  I seriously doubt I would have had the confidence to continue to babywear at playgroups if I had felt judged or intimidated by them.

So stop for a minute and remember what it was like to be new.  How would you have felt to hear that you weren't wrapping right because your wrap was twisted?  You had just been super proud you didn't need the instructions anymore.  How would you feel if you were told your carrier was bad?  Or even worse, that wearing your baby would harm them?  You might have rolled your eyes and never talked to that person again, or you might have felt too shamed and embarrassed to go to another babywearing meeting.  Would you feel welcomed?  Would this be a community you wanted to be a part of?  How many of us started out perfect?  Let's be supportive and help babywearing grow, not scare people away by making them feel not good enough to hang with the cool babywearers!

Room in the tent

I don't know if there is a topic more polarizing than parenting.  As a parent, we are constantly made to feel like we have to defend our parenting choices.  If people aren't openly judging us, we often still think they are!  And face it, no one judges us more than we judge ourselves.  I don't know a parent out there that thinks they are doing a great job.  Maybe that's why it's easy to judge others, because it makes us feel like at least we are doing it better than that person.

I don't want to see babywearing become just another way to judge parents.  Babywearing is babywearing.  Ideal or not, it should be celebrated in all forms.  Babywearing is becoming more and more "mainstream", which is great!  It means that more and more babies will be carried instead of spending so much time in strollers or swings.  Let's make room in the tent for all babywearers.  Let's spend our energy focusing on the joys of babywearing instead of worrying about who is doing it "right".

What Babywearing is really about


A recent photo posted in a babywearing group was such a powerful reminder of what babywearing is really about.  It was a photo of a mother, at the hospital, wearing her baby while she rested.  She has cancer and was at the hospital for her chemotherapy treatment.  The treatment left her too weak to hold her baby and she didn't have her carrier.  So she took a blanket and fashioned a sling out of it.  She put in the description that it was definitely not a "hands off" carrier, but it let her cuddle with her baby.

That's what babywearing is about.  It's not about the kind of carrier you own.  It's not about the "rules".  It's about being close to your baby.  That's it.  Simple, but so, so important and something that should be encouraged.  Even a simple piece of cloth can be used as a baby carrier.  A blanket.  A towel.  Anything that can safely be used to help you keep your baby close when you otherwise wouldn't be able to.

So next time you see that baby facing forward with their legs dangling beneath them, instead of cringing or being irritated, be happy that that baby has parents that love them and want to be close to them!

Thursday, September 6, 2012

International Orders

For a long time we have offered shipping to Canada.  I grew up in Alaska and remember not being able to order things because the companies didn't ship to us.  So when I started a business, I knew I wanted to offer shipping to Alaska and Hawaii, and Canada just seemed like the natural next step.

Over the years, I have had great customers in Canada who I have happily shipped baby carriers to.  But after recently speaking with some Canadian retailers, I have decided to stop shipping to Canada. The decision to stop shipping to Canada was not an easy one, but something I feel is the right thing to do.

Canadian retailers pay duties and shipping when they import their products to Canada.  This is often reflected in their pricing and some brands actually do not allow their US retailers to ship their brand to Canada for that very reason.  A Canadian retailer that pays these costs in order to supply their local customers with products can not compete with the US prices that do not reflect those fees.  Often, an individual can import a package without paying duties and customers will order from the US hoping they will get a cheaper price.  And a company like mine that was offering flat rate shipping only exacerbates the issue.

So, after much consideration, we have decided to encourage our Canadian and international customers to shop locally.  We don't want to prevent our customers from having access to certain products that may not be available in Canada, so if there is something unique to our store that you would like to order, we would be more than happy to ship it to you.  But we will no longer offer shipping to Canada through our web store and Canadian customers will have to contact us directly to place an order just like our other international customers.  They will also be responsible to pay the entire shipping cost for their order as well as any duties they may be charged.

Our goal is not to alienate anyone, and I understand this will hurt my business by costing me sales.  But I feel strongly that we should support the retailers in Canada that have imported carriers at no small cost in order to make sure their customers have access to a variety of baby carriers waiting to ship.

Here's a list of babywearing companies in Canada:

Tadpoles & Butterflies (Alberta)
Kissable Baby (Alberta)
Milkface (Ontario)
GorgeousBaby (British Columbia)
Precious Earth (Saskatchewan)

More to come!

Thank you all for your understanding and support!

Thursday, August 30, 2012

The Co-op Controversy

Co-ops seem to be popping up everywhere and is quickly becoming a hot topic in the babywearing community.  Co-ops have always existed, but I think Facebook and other on-line communities are making them have a much wider audience and much greater impact.

Recently, in attempt to deal with an ongoing problem with unauthorized co-ops, BabyHawk made an announcement that they will no longer honor any product warranties for products that are not sold by an authorized retailer.   This has spurred quite a debate in the community between people that believe co-ops are harmless and the companies that are trying to prevent them.

This blog post is an attempt to shed some light on this issue, explaining what kind of co-ops these business are trying to protect their products against.  I will do my best to explain this as thoroughly and to the best of my understanding as I am able, but I am sure there are aspects I will miss or could explain better.  I will edit and add anything that is brought up that appears to be a valid piece that may have been overlooked.

What is a co-op?


Co-op is a short term for a "cooperative".
A cooperative is an autonomous association of persons who voluntarily cooperate for their mutual social, economic, and cultural benefit.
When we are talking about co-ops, we are referring to a large group of people that group buy a product in order to receive a price discount.

Two kinds of co-ops


For the purpose of this post, there are generally two kinds of co-ops you will find.  The first are co-ops sanctioned by the manufacturer of a product and the second are done by an "authorized" retailer or third party and are not legit.

Companies will often have co-ops to help them grow their business.  Co-ops are a great way for a small business to get their band and product to the public.  They are also sometimes used to clear out discontinued products, colors or prints.  Some companies do allow their retailers to run legit co-ops, but most make all their retailers sign contracts that agree not to do co-ops and to follow the approved pricing.  Legit co-ops can be a great way for people to get a discount by buying in bulk and can be a good thing for everyone.

Illegitimate co-ops, the ones that will will be talking about in this post, are when a retailer or other party sells the products at a greatly reduced price, far below retail cost.  This is done "under the table" without the companies consent and often directly in conflict with the wholesale agreement they signed.  They usually make only a fraction of a profit per item counting on a high volume of sales to bring in their profits.

These co-ops should not be confused with some of the small buying co-ops that people will put together in order to get a discount by buying in bulk.  This is a retailer or someone who applied as a retailer under fraudulent circumstances that is grossly abusing the status they have been granted by selling products at a significantly lower cost in order to turn a quick profit.

Just for clarification, small co-op groups run by people, not "retailers", that participate in group buying to get a discount is not the problem.  These types of co-ops are approved by a company when their business model includes co-ops.  It is not the same as a retailer not following their contract.  I would go into more detail, but that is what the remainder of this post is about.

So what is the problem?


Sales are great right?  Everyone loves a discount!  So what is the problem with getting something for a great price?  Well there are risks when you obtain something under fraudulent circumstances, whether you were aware of it being fraudulent or not.

One of the biggest things people need to be aware of, especially with certain larger brands like Ergo, is that knock off carriers are produced and sold through co-ops and rarely through legitimate stores.  This does not mean that a store couldn't buy knock off carriers or that all co-ops sell knock offs, but it is not likely that a legit business would take that kind of risk just to make a few extra dollars.  Companies have to protect and separate themselves from knock offs, especially since they are often made with inferior construction and materials.  The best way for them to do this is to not allow their products to be sold through co-ops and to only honor carriers purchased through an authorized retailer.

That is exactly the reason why many companies will not honor warranties for their products unless purchased by an authorized retailer.  But if it's not a knock off,  the product must come from an "authorized" retailer right?  Yes, technically the company authorized them and sold them the products.  But once the retailer breached their agreement, they are no longer "authorized" and the contract with the company is no longer valid.  If a company has a reason to suspect a retailer has breached their agreement and devalued their product, they are within their rights.

Many of these "retailers" are not retailers.  These co-ops are often being run by people or "businesses" that are disregarding the regulations and standards that other retailers must comply with.  This is even more important when dealing with imported products, but I will go into that a bit later.

Who does it hurt?


Buying a product at 40% off may not seem like it's hurting anyone, especially when the "retailer" is willing to sell them for that price.  But in reality, it doesn't stop there.  Saturating the market with under priced carriers hurts everyone.

Selling a low priced carrier does not stop with the person that purchased the product.  It has a trickle affect that really impacts the entire market.  Some people will buy the carrier and love it, so they will keep it for a year or two before selling it to someone else.  But some people will decide not to keep their carrier and sell it right away.  This swamps the market with cheap carriers.  Now the mom that was trying to sell a lightly used one at a loss can't even sell hers because there are brand new ones for sale at 40% off retail.  Retail sales drop for that carrier because no one wants to pay full price when there are plenty available or another co-op starting in a month or two.  Eventually the retailer clearances their carriers because they aren't selling and stop stocking that brand.  Now the parent company has lost their retailer and the orders they were placing.  Sure, they had the initial large sale, so they still made their original profit from the co-oped carriers, but now their product has lost value and people don't want to pay the full retail price.

Can you see how it affects everyone?  And most of those retail shops are small family owned businesses, many owned and run by work at home moms (WAHMs).  These business count on the products they buy having value in order to stay open.  Even a small loss can be enough to close a small business like that.

The damage done by a co-op is even worse if the products are knock offs.  Flooding the market with knock offs damages the consumer confidence in a product and can greatly impact sales.  Some of you may be aware of some of the damage done when a huge amount of fake Ergos were imported and sold in the US a while back.  Companies like Ergo, Beco, Moby, and other larger brands are especially at risk for being copied and reproduced.  These products are often made with inferior construction and materials and can often be unsafe.  Find out more about fake carriers on the BCIA website.

The companies that manufacture a product do so at a great cost.  It takes them time and significant investment to grow their product and they can only exist if their product has value.  People will happily pay the retail price when they know it is an investment that they can sell down the road.  But if the market is swamped with cheap carriers, no one will want to pay retail because that product is no longer worth that much.  That is why many companies, like Sakura Bloom, go through great lengths not to discount and undervalue their products.  It is out of loyalty to the brand they have created, their customers, and their retailers that they do their best to maintain the value of their products.

Maybe you're not worried about the value of your carrier and aren't concerned about the impact of co-ops on businesses, you just know you can't afford full price and so why not?  But devaluing these products actually impacts the entire babywearing industry.  When co-ops flood the market with cheap carriers, it makes is harder for existing companies to stay in business or grow and makes it even harder for new brands to emerge when the price of baby carriers have been undervalued to a point where they can't charge a fair price for their product.  Also, if stores can't sell the baby carriers they purchase, they will be forced to stop carrying them, which means people will have less access to baby carriers and babywearing in general.

I also want to add that this is not an issue that solely affects the babywearing industry.  The same can be seen with many other products, including cloth diapers, designer bags, strollers, etc.  In all cases, co-ops like these can undervalue and damage the product line involved and impacts the market as a whole.

Apples to oranges


So what's the difference between supporting a WAHM that runs legit retail business or one that runs a co-op without having an actual retail store?

When a retail store, whether on-line or brick and mortar, decides to carry a brand, it is an investment.  They have to carefully select what brands they choose to carry because stocking a product is costly.  Retail stores have overhead expenses to be in business, with brick and mortar significantly more than on-line shops.  Stocking their shelves with a products in a variety of colors and sizes for people to choose from is necessary to attract customers, but comes with a significant up front cost.  So a retail business must be careful when choosing what products to stock since something that is sitting on a shelf is costing the store money and keeping them from buying more products.

When a person or business runs a co-op like the ones we have been talking about, they have little to no upfront costs, no risk, is able to easily attract a large number of sales, and get paid in full before ordering.  People mistakenly believe this retailer is doing THEM a favor by offering such a great deal, but in actuality, these are quick, easy sales that allow them to turn a quick profit.  Purchasing from a co-op like this does not support small businesses or work at home moms, it is one person profiting at the expense of other small businesses and work at home moms.

What about pre-orders?


Like co-ops, pre-orders are done when a retailer allows customers to pre-order a product for a discounted rate.  These are especially common for international orders that have to be imported since the shipping cost is much higher.

Customers usually can not justify ordering directly from overseas since the shipping and import costs for one item makes it not cost effective.  A retailer will often open a pre-order when placing international orders.  This lets the customer to choose the exact product they wanted which allows the retailer make sure they import the products their customers actually want to purchase.  The cost for both the retailer and the customer to import a product is then shared, and retailers will often pass this discount on to the customers as a thank you for pre-ordering and waiting for their product to arrive.

So a pre-order is a discount on shipping and import costs and not the same as selling a product slightly above wholesale.  Both the retailer and the customer benefit from this arrangement and the overall market is not affected by these slight discounts.

International products


One of the biggest issues with co-ops applies only to international orders.  A retailer has certain responsibilities when they import a product to the US.  There are regulations that require a retailer take certain steps to make sure a product is safe and able to be tracked in the event of a product recall.  All baby carriers sold in the US must have product registration cards as well as tagging that identifies the model number, manufacture date and manufacture location.  International manufactures often are not in compliance with the US regulations, so it is the responsibility of the retailer importing these carriers to meet these requirement.  This is done at the cost of the retailer, while many co-ops are knowingly ignoring these regulations because they are not worried about the consequences.  Not being an actual store with overhead and inventory, there is little motivation for them to meet the regulations that apply to retailers.

What to look for


For the reasons listed above, it is important that a consumer is careful when they are purchasing from a co-op, especially to make sure that you are not getting an inferior imitation and that your manufacturer warranty will be valid.  But how do you tell the difference between a legitimate sale and an unauthorized co-op?  The simplest way... if it's too good to be true, then it probably is.

Unless a brand is changing to a new model or discontinuing a specific print, it is very unlikely that you will see sales of 20%, 30% or 40% off retail.  There are some exceptions of course, like Black Friday and Cyber Monday events.  But most of these sales are easily confirmed on the parent company's website and will be available at many, if not all, authorized retailers that carry their products.

One of the quickest ways to determine if this is an actual store or someone with a resellers license that is selling products under fraudulent circumstances is to look at the "store" itself.  Do they carry a stock?  Are there a variety of carriers available for purchase?  Do products ordered ship right away or do they fill all orders on a drop ship only basis?  Though many legit companies offer certain products through drop shipping, but it could be a warning sign if it is the only kind of products they carry.  If it looks like a store that you can actually buy from, then it is more likely to be an authorized sale.  But if it looks like a blog, facebook group or somewhere that only does "pre-orders", "co-ops" or drop shipping, it is less likely to be a legit run retailer.

You may occasionally find a store that has a product on clearance to make room for something else, but some companies like Sakura Bloom even discourage that kind of discounting, asking instead that carriers be sold back to the parent company.  Items available for clearance will also always be in-stock carriers and never a co-op or pre-order.

If you are concerned that a company may be running an illegitimate co-op, check the manufacturer's website and see if they are an authorized retailer.  If they do in fact show up, contact the company and ask if this is an authorized sale.  If it is, you can confidently buy knowing that the product you are buying is safe and will have value.

By any other name


Because BabyHawk and other companies are coming out against these unauthorized co-ops, many co-ops are quickly trying to re-name themselves.  Some are saying "co-op" is just the word they are using, but they are actually just "trying to offer carriers at the best price they can".  But if this price is against the wholesale agreement they signed with the company, they are running an unauthorized co-op no matter what they say or call it.

Making babywearing available to everyone


One of the things these people will sometimes say is that they don't care about money, they are just trying to make babywearing available to everyone.  While I believe some really are just in it for the quick profit, I do think there are some people out there that do have good intentions and do not realize the harm they are actually doing.  But offering people carriers far under market value does not help the babywearing industry, it hurts it.  It makes is harder for existing companies to stay in business or grow and makes it even harder for new brands to emerge when the price of baby carriers have been undervalued to a point where they can't charge a fair price when they enter the market.

Almost all of the people involved in the babywearing community are passionate about babywearing and want it to be available to everyone.  Many of the retailers and companies support local babywearing groups and work with individuals to help them find a carrier they can afford.  Sometimes this means a payment plan, sometimes it means buying clearance, returned, or even used carriers, sometimes this means helping a "customer" find a way to make their own.

Babywearing should be available to everyone, but that does not mean carriers should be sold for less than they are worth.  Jan Andrea of Sleeping Baby Productions is someone well known and respected in the community for her passion about babywearing and helping make affordable slings available to anyone.  Here's a great quote that was posted on the Sleeping Baby Productions Facebook page about this very topic:
"I love a bargain, and I know a lot of other people do, too, but... If you buy something from a co-op that's priced way below retail, you're not merely getting a bargain. You're also helping to undercut the small businesses who do follow pricing guidelines and abide by manufacturers' contracts... businesses that, in this field, are usually run by work from home moms just like me. Even "large" manufacturers in the babywearing world are moms -- there are no millionaires in this business (believe me!). I've heard of at least two co-op directors recently who fraudulently applied to be vendors, planning to resell at practically wholesale prices. Yes, absolutely, this appeals to the bargain-hunter in all of us... but I hope people will consider the fact that this is taking sales away from moms who are just trying to make a living promoting babywearing.

And before you say "but I can't afford X carrier at retail!", please remember that in most of the world, mothers make do with a piece of cloth... and that's really all you need. We get all worked up about the latest wrap woven from unicorn hair by fairies, but honestly? In the end, it's a piece of cloth. You don't *need* X carrier to babywear, and if you can't afford X carrier at its market value, it's really not the end of the world. You can still babywear. Or you can get X carrier second-hand, or do a payment plan with a legitimate vendor, or make your own. Just don't imagine that when you buy from a co-op vendor, there are no victims, because there are -- moms like me, who are doing their best to help other parents wear their babies, and make a halfway decent living doing so."
NuzzleMe Creations is another babywearing company that started the Feel Good Child Carrier Movement.  Companies participate in giveaways and fundraisers to help people.  Our store has even loaned out a carrier for a mama to use with her preemie until her baby is big enough to use the carrier she originally purchased.  There are lots of companies out there doing what they can to help people afford babywearing, but it must be done in a way that allows the babywearing industry to grow and flourish.

My hands aren't clean


Before I understood the impact of co-ops like this, I will admit that I participated in one before.  It wasn't for baby carriers, but it doesn't matter.  I also accidentally under priced a product when I first opened not realizing the costs involved in importing.  But we learn.  Our awareness changes.  It's what we do once we have that information that is important.  Now I do what I can to help people out without undercutting the products and brands I am privileged to carry. 

Thank you


Thank you for taking your time understand this topic more thoroughly.  I truly believe most of us want to continue to see the babywearing industry thrive and together we can keep it strong.


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Wednesday, August 29, 2012

Boba & Peekaru

As some of you already know, Boba and Peekaru have teamed up.  Boba has acquired the current stock of Peekaru products.  They are currently selling off the old stock and will be re-branding the products under the Boba name.  Currently, only the Peekaru vests and hoodies are planned to be released, the Peekaru Ozone and Peekaru Soft Shell will not scheduled to be re-released by Boba.

What are the Peekaru products?


Peekaru makes outerwear that is made to be used while babywearing.  Whether wearing your baby at the beach or out in the bitter cold, Peekaru has you covered!

Peekaru Original
This is the original babywearing vest that was made by Peekaru.  It's made of fleece and currently comes in several colors and sizes.  We don't know yet what colors and sizes Boba will carry when they re-release this product.  Find out more about the Peekaru Original.

Peekaru Hoodie
The Peekaru Hoodie is currently out of stock, but Boba is planning to release more under the Boba name late this year.  This is designed to be worn when there is a chill in the air, but it's still too warm for the Peekaru Original.



Peekaru Soft Shell
The Peekaru Soft Shell is a babywearing coat designed to keep you and your baby warm while you enjoy participating in outdoor winter activities.  Snaps at the neck opening between you and your baby let you control the temperature.  (find out more about this babywearing coat)  As of right now, Boba has not plans of re-producting these coats, so they are only available for a limited time.

Peekaru Ozone
This Peekaru product was designed for summer.  This light weight, breathable cover provides 95% protection from UV rays.  They can be used to provide shade and protection while your baby is being worn in a carrier, being carried in an infant car seat or riding in a stroller.  These are also not scheduled to be restocked by Boba at this time, so availability is limited.  (find out more about the Ozone cover)

Get yours now!


Boba is eager to clear out their current stock to make way for the newly re-branded versions.  Because of this, they have authorized a huge sale of the remaining Peekaru products at greatly reduced prices!  This is great news for everyone, but there is limited availability and many colors and sizes have already sold out.  So if you're interested in any of these great products, get yours now!  You can see our current stock and sale prices on our website.

Happy Shopping!

Tuesday, July 17, 2012

NEW! BobaAir

Boba has designed an ultra lightweight, compact soft structured baby carrier... the BobaAir!


The BobaAir, just released today, is a brand new and unique product from the Boba Family.  This soft structured carrier is made out of 100% Nylon making it easy to clean, durable, and very compact.  Weighing only 0.7lbs, the BobaAir folds up into itself for easy storage.  It can easily be kept in your purse, diaper bag, or even glove box!


Features:
  • 100% Nylon - easy to clean, durable, light, and water resistant
  • Use for front and back carries with children 15-45 lbs
  • Designed includes sleeping hood and storage pocket
  • Large zipper pouch for on-the-go storage - simply stuff and go, no special folding needed
  • Elastic bands neatly roll up straps for storage
  • Easily adjustable chest strap

Specs:
  • Lightweight – only .7 pounds (11oz)
  • Comfortably fits heights 5'0" – 6'3"
  • Waistband range: 27" – 55"
  • Body of carrier rises 16"

So if you're looking for a lightweight carrier that is super portable, this is just what you were waiting for!  Keep it with you for convenient access when ever you need a baby carrier.  When you're done, just stuff it back inside the pocket and zip it up for next time!  At only $65, these carriers make the perfect "car carrier" for those unplanned babywearing moments.  Order one today at Zerberts.

Update:


A friend and I had a chance to play with the new BobaAir yesterday and we were both pleasantly surprised.  Unlike most SSC on the market, the BobaAir has NO padding in the shoulder straps or waist belt.  I really expected this to make the carrier less comfortable, especially when using with my 20 month old.  But the straps actually hugged my body and weren't uncomfortable at all.  Both of us regularly wear padded SSC with our children and both of us found the BobaAir comfortable.

My friend and her 15 month old, 26 lb "little" man!

That being said, no carrier fits everyone the same and there are a few things that I could see causing pressure points on certain people depending on how the carrier fits their body, like the snaps on the shoulder straps for the sleeping hood or the place where the chest belt attaches to the straps.  But at $65, I think most people will be very happy with the fit and feel of this carrier, especially if only wearing for shorter periods of time.

Another thing I was curious about was how easily the carrier was to take in and out of it's storage pocket.  The pocket flips inside out when removing or storing the carrier.  Taking the carrier out is easy enough, but I was nervous that getting it to fit back inside its self would be hard.  I was again surprised at how easily I was able to tuck everything up, flip the pocket inside out and then tuck everything inside.  It took only a few seconds the first time I tried it.  There was no special folding needed and it fit easily, zipping without any issues.

This carrier is lighter in features than the 3G.  It doesn't have all the bells and whistles the Boba 3G comes with and also can not snap down into an infant carrier.  But at almost half the cost, this carrier is a bargain.  Boba has done a great job designing this carrier and achieving the goal of making a light weight, portable baby carrier that is both affordable and comfortable.  Well done Boba!


Q&A


There have been a couple questions coming up about the BobaAir that I thought I would answer for you here. 

Can the BobaAir be used in the pool?
No, Boba has made it very clear that the BobaAir is not a water carrier.  The fabric is water resistant, which will be nice if you get caught in the rain or get a little wet chasing your older child at the splash park, but it is not intended for use in water.

Is it breathable?
Nylon is not known for being a breathable fabric.  That being said, the fabric is super thin and light making it cooler than you would expect.  There is also no padding adding thickness to any part of the carrier.

Will BobaAir be available in any other colors?
Boba is not planning to release the BobaAir in any other colors. UPDATE:  Boba has released the BobaAir in new colors, including a blue and white color.